An Amy Grant classic
Too true, and too depressing!
One of our regular lunch locations is Victoria’s Mexican Restaurant. It is family owned and has been around since 1983. It looks to me as if the majority of people who eat there have some connection with the family that owns the place.
Our regular waitress is Carmen, one of the owners. She knows what we usually have and depending on her mood she may come over to our table or she may take our order from the “owners table,” where various family members sit as they come and go.
Carmen has a very cute and charming daughter who works at CVS, and who can often be found taking her lunch at the owner’s table. She can also be frequently found at the local gym.
Another person who can be found at the owners table is Donald (Elvis) Prieto, a member of the family who made an amazing comeback from a kidney transplant some years ago. On Tuesdays, though, Carmen has the day off and you’ll find him waiting tables. He’s also a well-known Elvis impersonator in South County.
We’re happy to be part of the extended family at Victoria’s.
I’ve long resisted twitter, but I opened a twitter account some weeks back in large part to follow the 2012 Episcopal General Convention. Originally the twitter hashtag was supposed to be #GC12, but the Presbyterians made ample use of that at their own convention earlier this year, so it was switched to #GC77, this being the 77th triennial General Convention of the Episcopal Church. I checked in multiple times a say, and for the most part I was pleased with the results of the convention. You can get the official wrap-up from the Episcopal News Service here, but I wanted to share my own reflections.
The lasting work of the convention is in the resolutions passed or not passed, because that sets the direction for the church for the next three years. Among some of the resolutions I was pleased to see adopted:
- A resolution authorized provisional use of a rite for blessing same-gender unions. (Watch Susan Russell on CNN debating the topic with an opponent of same-sex blessings.)
- One resolution makes clear that the ordination discernment process is open to members of the transgender community, and another guarantees their equal place in the life, worship and governance of the church.
The convention passed a resolution on the controversial Anglican Covenant (see also http://noanglicancovenant.org/) that said: “as a pastoral response to The Episcopal Church, the General Convention decline(s) to take a position on the Anglican Covenant at this convention.” I don’t suppose that there was any chance of the Anglican Covenant ever being approved, but I wish the convention had taken a definitive stand against it.
The one big disappointment was on the matter of Open Communion. Currently the canons officially state that only those baptized can receive Communion, though this practice is rarely enforced. There were two resolutions on this, one to explicitly permit Open Communion and one to study it. What finally was passed was a resolution that doesn’t do much of anything. It simply states, “baptism is the ancient and normative entry point to receiving Holy Communion.” I checked with my spiritual director, who is an Episcopal priest and was a convention delegate this year, and she confirmed that this has no effect at all on Canon 1.17.7, which requires baptism to receive Communion. She emailed me, “I’ll continue to be one of those who acts outside the canon and hope for a different outcome next time.” She will be far from alone in this respect. Disappointing, indeed.
I should mention, since the resolution passed both houses unanimously, that the convention voted to study a significant organizational restructuring. That will be interesting.
On social justice issues, though, and on matters of reaching out and including the disenfranchised, the convention hit the ball out of the park. Susan Russell wrote on Facebook:
Quick breakfast burrito in the airport. Debriefing convention with colleague. Cute, young waitress interrupts. “I just want to thank you for what your church is doing. I have too many friends who are struggling because their church tells them they’re not OK and so I just want to say you guys rock!” Seeds bearing fruit from our GC77 witness.
I have to say that today I am proud to be a member of the Episcopal Church.
Old 100th (All People That on Earth Do Dwell), arranged by Ralph Vaughan Williams. 50th Coronation Anniversary.
I’ll be back at the end of the week with Sacred Music Friday, and then on Monday 16 July with new blog posts. In the meantime, I’m taking a short break from blogging and in doing so will be following the happenings at the Episcopal General Convention. And join me on Facebook. I may have a thing or two to say there this week.
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