our household philosophy

It’s been more than two years since I shared our household philosophy here, so I think it’s time to do so again. It has hung in the front entry way of all three of the houses Terry and I have shared. It comes from the long biographical essay “About Ed Ricketts” philosophyin the back of John Steinbeck’s book, The Log from the Sea of Cortez. Steinbeck and Ricketts were close friends and Steinbeck wrote the piece after Ed’s untimely death.

Ricketts was known for enjoying time with the ladies, and also for not taking responsibility for the consequences. Steinbeck writes that Ricketts, a scientist, came up with this logical, structured formula after three youngsters, for whose origins he apparently shared responsibility, were deposited on his front doorstep.

Terry and I have long felt that Ricketts’ formula reflects what we consider to be important in our daily lives.

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“We must remember three things,” he said to them, “I will tell them to you in the order of their importance.
“Number one and first in importance, we must have as much fun as we can with what we have.
“Number two, we must eat as well as we can, because if we don’t we won’t have the health and strength to have as much fun as we might.
“And number three and third and last in importance, we must keep the house reasonably in order, wash the dishes, and such things. But we will not let the last interfere with the other two.”

This is every bit as true for us today as it was when we first hung it on our wall in Mountain View in the mid-1990s.


Sacred Music Friday: Te Deum

Ralph Vaughan Williams – Te Deum. National service of thanksgiving to celebrate the diamond Jubilee Queen Elizabeth at St Paul’s Cathedral, Tuesday 5 June 2012.


playdates

I know that playdates have been a real thing for quite a few years. After reading this Cul de Sac cartoon, I got curious and looked up “playdate” and “play date” on Google ngrams. The results were interesting. The word has been in use for a very long time. There were instances as early as 1940 if not before, though I only graphed 1960 on. But the word really didn’t get heavily used until after 1995. In many references from the 1960’s that I sampled, “playdate” refers to the dates a theatrical production was performed or film shown.

CuldeSac

In terms of the current usage, however, I would guess that the practice, and hence the term, became more popular in a world where both parents were working and lives were busier for kids with organized activities such as soccer leagues. Those of you who know me know that it’s very easy for me to slip into “why when I wuz your age” mode. This is one of those times.

When I was growing up we’d go outside and see who else was outside and we’d play. Or maybe someone would even knock on a neighbor’s door and see if they were free to play. And we’d play. There were scheduled activities sometimes, but that was the exception rather than the rule.

It’s a different world. I know that. But I’d glad that I grew up in a time that we didn’t have to have scheduled playdates.

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All The Wild That Remains: Edward Abbey, Wallace Stegner, and the American West

AlltheWildthatRemainsAll The Wild That Remains: Edward Abbey, Wallace Stegner, and the American West
David Gessner
W. W. Norton & Company, March 31, 2015
Kindle edition $12.99, Amazon hardcover $18.36

I stumbled across this book while looking for Kindle editions of Edward Abbey’s writings. I’m glad that I did.

This is a fascinating survey of the lives of Edward Abbey and Wallace Stegner, combined with a lot of depressing information about climate change and water issues in the West, mixed up with enjoyable accounts of the author’s travels and encounters in the region.

One thing Gessner does well is to contrast Stegner the academic with Abbey the outdoorsman and sometime monkeywrencher. He concludes that despite what you might guess based on those personas, Stegner was the more radical of the two in his views on the West and the environment. Others whose paths crossed those of the two men, and who also had a deep concern for the land and the environment get attention as well. Wendell Berry, Joseph Wood Krutch, and Bernard DeVoto all make appearances here.

Gessner wanders the West himself and does a marvelous job of describing both the landscape and the people he interviews, whose lives are inextricably intertwined with the fate of the West.

For those that know and love the West, this is worthwhile reading.


reading the Review

I started getting the New York Times Sunday Book Review by mail when I cancelled our home delivery of the Sunday Times. I did that when a former CEO of a former company I worked for cut everyone’s pay. It wasn’t so much to read the issue that came in the mail, as it was rather slow in showing up, but it was the cheapest way to get full online access to the Times.

For a long time I read the book review online, either on the Web or later on my iPad. When I started attending St. John the Divine in Morgan Hill I eventually began picking up the Sunday Times at the bookstore up there. So we had the full package, book review included.

When we moved here to Hemet the Sunday Los Angeles Times, supplemented by the Riverside Press-Enterprise, gave us plenty of Sunday paper. And I changed my philosophy on the book review. I thought the paper copy would be good Sunday evening reading. Yes, it is inconsistent as to when it shows up, and it often arrives three or more days after the cover date. But there’s really nothing time-sensitive there, and it represents a small subset of our previous full Times Sunday evening reading.

It works. A glass of wine and the Sunday Book Review with Terry nearby make for a pleasant Sunday evening.

BookReview


why we keep coming back

While Pastor Kathleen was away on vacation, the priest filling in for her on the second Sunday reminded me of a basic truth. I wish I had a transcript or recording, but what she said in essence was this.

Why do we keep coming back here week after week after week? For the Bread and the Wine, because that is what allows us to go back out there and deal with the challenges of the world.

Yes. Exactly.


Secular Music Friday: The Garden Song

But sacred, really: Pete Seeger – Garden Song (Inch by Inch). I’ve shared this before, but it’s well worth the repeat.